Do you have a hard time feeling good while people you love are struggling?
Is it hard to enjoy the blessings of your life when it seems so much of the world is suffering?
Do you eclipse your own light because you think solidarity helps others?
If so, I’m so glad you landed here.
As someone who has experienced survivor’s guilt several times – including 9/11 and three natural disasters – I’ve had many opportunities to learn the truth. Feeling guilty and dimming our own lights is not only detrimental to us but can also hurt those we are unconsciously choosing to feel crappy for.
I explain why and how feeling as good as possible is, along with loving, listening, and praying, one of the most powerful ways to serve another in Stop Eclipsing Your Energy – my most recent post on NancyKoenig.com.
I created the site last year following Hurricanes Milton and Helene, which impacted countless areas I’m connected with. So many people and animals I love were suffering and I briefly relapsed into codependent commiserating before recalling these powerful truths.
I also share some amazing free resources from Dr. Sue Morter, connected with a process that taught me how to help others (and myself!) heal in profound ways.
The world needs your loving rays, so visit the following pages to get those rays shining brighter than ever before.