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Heal Yourself Heal Your Life

I have very exciting news to share about The Relationship Ride! For starters, I am publishing next month, and although it’s a year later than I planned, timing is truly everything. If I’d done so sooner, like my mind insisted upon, the book wouldn’t have the endorsements it has been blessed with, like a foreword from Sue Morter! 

If you’re not familiar with “Dr. Sue” yet (you likely will be when her next book launches), she’s one of the three most influential teachers of my life, and the one who taught me the secret ingredient I was missing on my path of healing, empowerment and awakening.

I’ll reveal what that was, and share the other unexpected blessings received when I reached out to my teachers for their blessings soon. (I wanted to make sure they were comfortable with what I’d written about them in The Relationship Ride – after all, this is not your everyday personal development book!)

Dr. Sue is teaching her annual Heal Yourself Heal Your Life course, a three-day weekend on Zoom that has been life changing for everyone I know who has taken it. It starts today!

If you’re interested but don’t see this blog post right away, even one hour of this weekend could be exactly what you need to hear to take your self-love and healing journey to the next level. That’s all it took for me when I was first introduced to Dr. Sue many years ago.

 

To learn more about Heal Yourself Heal Your Life (and get an advance glimpse at which other thought leaders have endorsed the book)…

Check out my new website!!!

I’ll take you right to the resources page with the link to Sue Morter’s event below; from there you can access all the other pages.

I’m SO excited about my new site, where I can host all my offerings in one spot.

Let me know what you think of it!

When I add group sessions to my energy healing practice, Love Without Traffic readers will receive the first month on me, to thank you for being part of my adventure all these years!

Be sure to subscribe and reach out through the new site so I can add you to my Loyalty List, and to read future posts! I’m in the process of moving the blog to the new site.

See you there!

https://www.nancykoenig.com/resources

 

 

 

Blog Book Title

The new book about my life-enhancing journey through what I used to consider narcissistic abuse needed a magnetic title. Readers who had accompanied me on that relationship ride via my blog would likely have strong title suggestions. I thought, why not hold another contest?

Well, for starters, I created massive confusion.

“Why are you renaming the book?” asked a plethora of readers and friends. The name Love Without Traffic, which I couldn’t love more, had arrived during my first contest. I repeatedly explained that I wasn’t renaming the novel. The contest was for a new book!

“But why are you publishing another book before Love Without Traffic?” Many had been encouraging me to turn the blog into a book for several years but had been awaiting the novel even longer.

The answer to the book order question could inspire its very own book. Suffice to say for now, the blog let me know in no uncertain terms that it was ready to become a book immediately. It then presented a very convincing case for why it had to launch first.

Despite the confusing start, the contest got off to a really fun start. I was grateful that an eventual voting process would decide between the creative, deep, and catchy title suggestions that were rolling in. I could never have chosen between them myself.

Just as the contest momentum was starting to build, I went to Long Island for my nephew’s beautiful wedding, which turned into a much longer stay in New York than I’d anticipated.

“How’s the new book coming along?” a friend asked the night before I finally left New York. What new book? That exaggeration is only ever so slight. I’d done next to nothing with it in during those seven weeks.

I was beyond grateful to share time with cherished family and friends, yet oversummering with nonstop gatherings and activities and the frenetic energy of New York did not mix well with my ability to focus.

I grew up on Long Island and lived there until 2017, but we have both changed a lot since then. I’m now more accustomed to peaceful, slow-paced places like the ancient vortex mountains of North Carolina and the relaxing gulf coast of Florida. A catsitting gig in an area of Long Island people pay millions of dollars to live in had me thinking you couldn’t pay me millions to live there. Even the days spent oceanfront in my former community felt busy, bordering on intense.

In case that wasn’t enough to take me off my creative game, six planets retrograded at once.

As I rebounded in the mountains of Viriginia, a pitstop on my way to bask in the autumnal foliage magic and high vibes in WNC, I contacted my cover designer to let her know I was finally ready to move forward. This friend graciously told me there were a few things she needed before she could move forward – like a title.

Oh my! The contest! Okay, let me go apologize to everyone for falling off the face of the planet after they’d taken the time to share such fabulous suggestions, and I’ll get that contest cranking again.

As I began to write my “Sorry I got Moby Dicked by New York” post, it dawned on me that I got spit back out of the beast about six weeks too late to run the contest the way I’d envisioned. And since I was starting with an ebook and wouldn’t have the luxury of a back cover description, I realized the title needed to be simple. It also had to provide the gist of what a reader could expect.

After being led through a powerful guided meditation on the book’s path by Cheryl Ward, an amazing mentor I’d recently reconnected with, I sat to write this post. As I wrote the second sentence, I realized I had just written the title: The Relationship Ride!

Not only did this more fully encompass the blog, but “ride” also perfectly fit my cover image and the surfing theme that is interwoven into the book. I realized the book already knew what its title was all along; it just wanted me to catch it.

Thank you so much to those who joined the contest and contributed such great titles. There will be many more books, and I will get the next contest started early enough to see it through!

In the interim, you’re all invited to be part of my launch team which will grant access to the books before they are released to the public as well as special exclusive bonuses.

Keep that creativity flowing and stay tuned!

Join the launch team and/or read sample excerpts from The Relationship Ride here:

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