Clear Your Traffic

Are you feeling adversely affected by a relationship with a partner, family member, friend, professional associate or yourself? Is this person speaking and acting in ways that feel destructive? Are you? 

Have you been trying to ascertain if you are experiencing emotional, psychological and/or narcissistic abuse, or if you did in the past? Has this pattern shown up before, either with this person or in another important relationship in your life?

Are you using alcohol, drugs, sex, or another thing outside yourself to cope with the pain of this relationship or other experiences you don’t feel like you can handle?  

If you answered yes to any of these questions, reach out for a complimentary consultation and info on how to activate a superpower that will begin to shift this dynamic and permanently eradicate these patterns from your life. 

A relationship with another person or ourselves does not have to be abusive to present challenges beyond our current ability to handle them. With the right tools and support, we can claim the gifts the challenges are here to provide us with, heal fully and learn how to love and honor ourselves and others unconditionally.

This does not mean staying in a relationship or situation that feels toxic or challenging beyond your present ability to handle your feelings. But all relationships and situations do shift in some way when we change what we have the power to: ourselves and how we respond.

If we do choose to leave a relationship that seems unhealthy, we can walk away consciously, so the patterns won’t show back up with another person or situation as they do when we run away in fear or storm away in anger.

Contact me at 516-526-8455 or at for your free consultation and activation. I was a featured expert with 2018’s Emotional Abuse Recovery and Resiliency Summit and have extensive professional and personal experience with emotional/psychological and narcissistic abuse. 

I’m also a certified coach, addiction recovery specialist, author, speaker and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner.

If you need immediate assistance or feel you are in danger, call 911 or The Hotline (1-800-799-7233) which provides free support 24 hours a day. If you suspect your calls may be tracked or monitored, you may want to call from someone else’s phone.

The Hotline has supported over 5 million people! Just promise me you will eventually work to release the victim mentality that may be further fortified by traditional abuse support resources.

Sometimes we need to believe we are victims in order to extract ourselves from destructive relationships and establish ‘no contact’ while we begin our healing process. But if we run with that label without doing the inner work, we miss out on what the relationship was here to teach us and and are doomed to repeat the patterns.

 If we don’t heal from within, we will either return to an unhealthy relationship or attract an equally or even more toxic and challenging one. The patterns often get worse…so please spare yourself the next round of the cycle.

Healing must be done at the level of the roots of our trauma, which are almost always found in our childhoods.

If you’re currently stuck in overwhelming emotional congestion, I encourage you to place your hands over your heart and take a few slow, deep breaths. There is something quite beautiful waiting for you on the other side of this traffic, and you’re going to get there. Let me know how I can support you.